{"id":5882,"date":"2020-05-29T19:17:37","date_gmt":"2020-05-29T19:17:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/alwaysbestcare.com\/blog\/2020\/05\/29\/a-great-life-story-how-to-encourage-a-senior-loved-one-to-open-up\/"},"modified":"2020-05-29T19:17:37","modified_gmt":"2020-05-29T19:17:37","slug":"a-great-life-story-how-to-encourage-a-senior-loved-one-to-open-up","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/alwaysbestcarecanada.ca\/calgarysw\/resources\/a-great-life-story-how-to-encourage-a-senior-loved-one-to-open-up\/","title":{"rendered":"A Great Life Story \u2014 How to Encourage a Senior Loved One to Open Up"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"A<\/a>Seniors, by their very definition, have lived long lives, which means that they often have some amazing stories to tell. Sometimes, though, older individuals have trouble opening up and expressing themselves, regardless of how compelling their stories may be. Although there\u2019s nothing wrong with someone who values an economy of words, some of the greatest gifts that seniors have to give to subsequent generations lie within the memories that they have stored away inside of them.<\/p>\n

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Getting seniors<\/a> to tell their stories can be easy if you\u2019re caring for loved ones who are naturally good at spinning yarns and enjoy expressing their gift of gab. But what is one to do when a senior who has lived an amazing life seems unable to share aspects of that life with those who are closest with them? It can be frustrating, to say the least, and you don\u2019t want to nag your loved one to the point where they become even more reluctant to express themselves.<\/p>\n

Thankfully, there are a couple of great tips you can take advantage of to help your senior loved one open up and share their remarkable life stories.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s take a look!<\/p>\n

Ask Engaging Leading Questions<\/strong><\/p>\n

One of the mistakes that family members and others often make when they want a senior loved one to share their memories is to expect them to share on their own. In many cases, seniors simply don\u2019t look at their lives with as much wonder as others do; they see their unwillingness to share as a display of humility, and they don\u2019t want to brag about the amazing things they\u2019ve done in their lives.<\/p>\n

But when you can pay attention to the times when they\u2019re a bit more talkative, it gives you the opportunity to ask the right questions to ensure that they open up and start sharing their memories.<\/p>\n

Sometimes the opportunity to hear a wonderful story will appear out of the blue, so when your loved one starts talking, be sure to encourage the process by asking how events made them feel, which is a great way to spark more memories. Also, be sure to ask about details so you can place the stories in context, but don\u2019t ask too many questions about specifics \u2014 doing so can tire your senior loved one out, making it less likely that they\u2019ll continue to share.<\/p>\n

Tell Some of Your Own Stories<\/strong><\/p>\n

One great way to encourage your loved one<\/a> to share is to start by sharing a memory of your own. Do you recall a time when you shared a meaningful experience with your parent or grandparent? Tell the story and pay attention to how they respond. Ask them if they remember the same incident. Maybe they remember things a bit differently, which is a great opening for you to ask them to explain. Additionally, telling your own stories sets a tone of vulnerability that\u2019s often conducive to storytelling.<\/p>\n

Learn More<\/strong><\/p>\n

To learn more about how you can engage a senior loved one and ensure that they continue to make great memories, contact Always Best Care<\/strong><\/a> today at 1 (855) 470-CARE (2273)<\/em>. We can\u2019t wait to hear your story!<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Seniors, by their very definition, have lived long lives, which means that they often have some amazing stories to tell. Sometimes, though, older individuals have trouble opening up and expressing themselves, regardless of how compelling their stories may be. Although there\u2019s nothing wrong with someone who values an economy of words, some of the greatest…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2538,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"content-type":"","inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[169],"tags":[44,59,68,72],"class_list":["post-5882","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-aging-well"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/alwaysbestcarecanada.ca\/calgarysw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5882","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/alwaysbestcarecanada.ca\/calgarysw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/alwaysbestcarecanada.ca\/calgarysw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysbestcarecanada.ca\/calgarysw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysbestcarecanada.ca\/calgarysw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5882"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysbestcarecanada.ca\/calgarysw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5882\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysbestcarecanada.ca\/calgarysw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2538"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/alwaysbestcarecanada.ca\/calgarysw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5882"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysbestcarecanada.ca\/calgarysw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5882"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/alwaysbestcarecanada.ca\/calgarysw\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5882"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}